My son reminded me at dinner that the word spell once meant to speak with intention—to shape the world with words. That’s exactly what assistants do when they speak up. You don’t have to be the loudest voice in the room, but never doubt the power of your perspective. Your words carry weight. Use them.
Category: Culture & Events
The Silence Ends Here: New UK Law Bans NDAs That Hide Workplace Abuse
In a powerful step forward, the UK government has voted to ban the use of NDAs to silence victims of workplace harassment and discrimination. For those—especially women in assistant roles—who’ve been bullied, pushed out, and then gagged, this change is deeply personal. It marks the end of enforced silence and the beginning of accountability. No more protecting reputations at the cost of truth.
If You Think Someone’s “Too Important to Ask,” the System Is Broken
After 15 years of working outside traditional structures, I’ve seen how office hierarchies can quietly silence people. When someone says, “I couldn’t talk to them—they’re too important,” it’s not just culture, it’s conditioning. Assistants, and others in perceived ‘support’ roles, often absorb this the most. But real leadership isn’t about reverence. It’s about accessibility, trust, and shared purpose. Because fear-based systems don’t build great teams. They build silence.
The Assistant as Conductor: Quiet Leadership in Motion
Executive Assistants aren’t just coordinating—they’re conducting. Like the conductor of an orchestra, they don’t need to play every instrument to shape the entire performance. With a systems-thinking mindset and deep emotional awareness, they manage pace, transitions, and team dynamics. Their leadership may be unspoken, but it’s essential. This is modern leadership—strategic, steady, and often unseen.
EA to EA: Should You Warn Someone About a Toxic Exec?
When one assistant leaves a harmful workplace, and another is about to enter it—what’s the right thing to do? In a profession built on discretion, does a duty of care to each other override silence? This piece explores the unwritten “EA code” and why integrity, not just loyalty, should guide how we support one another behind the scenes.
The Silent Bias Pushing Experienced EAs Out of the Profession
Some of the most skilled, strategic Executive Assistants are being overlooked—not for lack of talent, but because of age. As redundancies rise and hiring biases go unchecked, too many 40+ professionals are facing rejection, not recognition. This is more than ageism; it’s a crisis of value and visibility. It’s time we stop filtering out the very expertise we say we need.
A Tribute to the Assistant Behind the Success: Tracey Chapman’s Legacy
Piers Morgan’s heartfelt tribute to his assistant of 20 years, Tracey Chapman, is a rare and powerful acknowledgment of the unseen brilliance behind a high-performing life. It’s time we recognised the assistants who don’t just support success — they sustain it.
Assistants Shouldn’t Have to Beg for the Bare Minimum
If assistants are being forced to fight for access, respect, or basic development opportunities, the problem isn’t them — it’s the system. It’s time to stop normalising exclusion and start recognising assistants as the strategic partners they are.
When Passion Meets a Pay Ceiling: The Hidden Cost of Undervaluing Assistants
What message are we sending when high-performing assistants are told the only way to earn more is to leave the work they love? This isn’t about lack of impact — it’s about lack of recognition. It’s time to change the system so excellence doesn’t lead to a dead end.
You Don’t Need Permission to Shine 🌟
Your worth isn’t defined by applause or permission. As an assistant, your impact is real — even when it’s behind the scenes. Stop waiting for validation. Celebrate your wins. Set boundaries. Own your expertise. Because the work you do is exceptional — and so are you.