The Executive Assistant: Manager, Leader, and So Much More

Administrative Profession Partnership Strategic Business Partner July 31, 2025

Is the Executive Assistant a manager or a leader?
The answer is both. And neither. And more.

Because assistants don’t fit neatly into either box, and that’s exactly the point.

They manage. Absolutely.
They manage workflows, priorities, meetings, conflicts, crises, energy, and time, not just their own, but everyone else’s too.
They hold the operational pulse of the organisation.
They are the ones who see the gaps, fix the inefficiencies, and keep the plates spinning.
That’s management.

But that’s not all it is.

Assistants also lead.
They lead sideways, upwards, and diagonally.
They influence decisions without a seat at the table.
They shape outcomes without owning the budget.
They anticipate risk, drive clarity, and build trust in every direction – not because they were asked, but because they know it’s needed.

That’s leadership.

And here’s what makes the assistant role so distinct.

It operates in the space between.
It doesn’t rely on authority to be effective. It relies on credibility, foresight, and relational intelligence.
It’s not about power, it’s about presence.

The assistant leads without ego.
Manages without control.
And connects the dots between vision and execution better than almost anyone else in the business.

Give them the scope.
Back their judgment.
And watch what happens.

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If your assistant always agrees with you, you don’t have a partner.
You have a mirror.

And a mirror can’t warn you when you’re about to walk off a cliff.

Here’s the thing:

• The best assistants sense-check decisions and ask why.
• They push back on processes that waste time.
• They flag risks you don’t want to see.

That isn’t insubordination.
That’s what partnership looks like.

Many executives still confuse silence with loyalty. It isn’t.
Silence is fear. And fear kills performance.

If you’ve hired well, you already have someone who sees what you don’t. When they speak up, they’re not undermining you. They’re protecting you. That’s their job.

I tell every assistant I train: your role is not to be afraid of your executive, but to be afraid for them.

So the next time your assistant challenges you, pause before shutting them down. Ask yourself: What am I missing?

Because here’s the paradox: the voice you silence might be the very one that saves you.
The smartest voice in the room isn’t always the loudest.
Sometimes, it’s the one you’re not ready to hear.

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